Original Version 5 Ways to Get a Boyfriend
So, you want a boyfriend, but you don't want to wait until he comes to you. Though, this
is the best method of getting one, however, if you insist on going out on your own to
find him, then here are 5 ways to help you get a boyfriend.
1. Make yourself attractive. Most times, a man wants someone as my grandmother
used to say, 'pleasing to the eye'. So, when you leave the house, make sure you do look
presentable. Make sure your hair is done nicely (even a ponytail can look nice when it's
done), and if don't want to put on make-up, at least put on some lip gloss.
2. Go to places where men hang out ie: gyms, basketball courts, football,
grocery stores, etc. Yes, I did say grocery stores. A lot of men know and like to
cook. When you see someone you like, don't just throw yourself out there. Ease into it....
slowly. Walk by, get his attention, and start up a conversation. You don't need a neon
sign or flashing lights to do this. Less is more.
3. Develop a friendship. you found someone whom you'd like to get to know better,
start developing a friendship. This is the perfect stage to get to know him and vice
versa. Take this time to make mental notes - what he likes and doesn't like and he will
be doing the same with you. Realize that every relationship needs a solid foundation.
Friendship is that foundation. As you build your friendship, over time, it most likely will
become more. If you just jump into a relationship with no foundation, chances are it will
fail.
4. Take it slow. The best relationships are those that take time to develop. Take the
story of the tortoise and the hare. Who ended up winning that race? The tortoise.
Though he was slow, he took his time, and he still won. No one wins when things are
rushed, so get out of the starting blocks.
5. Enjoy the ride. The journey to getting your boyfriend can be an enjoyable
experience, if you let it. Don't just focus on the result. Enjoy the ride to getting there. Not
only will you discover a few things about yourself, but you may also discover a few more
things about the man of your dreams.
I hope these steps get you off and running on the right foot. Getting a man is not a
competition or a race. Applying these principles insures that you can get a boyfriend and
keep your dignity at the same time.
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New Version
So, you want a boyfriend, but you don't want to wait until he comes to you… I don’t
blame you one little bit! You and I aren’t getting any younger, besides, if you don't move
now, someone else might snatch him up! So, with that in mind, here are 5 ways to get a
boyfriend.
1. Make yourself attractive.
2. Go to places where single guys hang out ie: gyms, grocery stores, etc.
3. Develop a friendship.
4. Take it slow.
5. Enjoy the ride.
Duh, no kidding, right? You could have figured that out all by yourself or found it in the
latest edition of Cosmo. Hey, I'm just covering the basics, some girls don't really have a
clue and I'm not about to leave anyone out here.
For you that have common sense covered, how about some advanced strategies? Now
we're talking, let's use a little psycho mubo-jumbo on him and really get him sideways.
Here's the thing about guys. They want what they can't have, even if their better sense
is telling them they don't really need it in the first place. You may not turn that guys
head because he knows he could get you if he wanted to, and, truth be told, he really
doesn't want you at all so why bother to even acknowledge your existence.
It's just like that rock you walked by the other day and didn't take the time to notice. But,
what if under that rock or somewhere buried within it you thought there might be a
diamond… you'd be all over it, wouldn't you?
Same thing for guys, only women are his "jewelry". If he thinks there may be more than
meets the eye, well my friend, you have a big one on the hook and it is time to real him
on in!
Resource Box:
Yeah, it sounds easy, or does it? I mean, you have to know what bait to use, how to
really set the hook, how fast to real so he doesn't get away… Tell you what, give me a
second of your time and visit me at how to land a guy and I'll explain just exactly how
you're gonna get that trophy in the boat and mounted…on the wall, of course!
This is from an email from a really sweet Gal who is getting a lot of views to her
articles but not a lot of click thrus. She is promoting the Magic of Making Up. This is
what I wrote back to hear when she said she was getting very few clicks and no
sales... (oh, she gave me her permission to use it... both articles have been published
so please don't borrow them )
Well dear, I'm not surprised there are very few clickthrus, and I sure don't want that to
come across as mean. First thing, even if you did get them to clickthru, the sales
page is going to be completely irrelevent to what they are looking for... they don't
have a boyfriend, why are you sending them somewhere to learn how to get him
back?
I know where you were headed with that but your reader won't. Okay, so, you could
scrap the article or you could find a product that fits it.
Next problem. The article did not tell me anything I did not know, so why would I
want to click thru and hear more of the same?
Here's a better way to write it:
I hope you all can see the difference. Tell me you would not want to click thru after
reading that... Some risky humor is okay and I'm walking the line with it right here but
again, I'm thinking of the reader... and they would not mind the mounting reference in
the resource box.
And of course I'd find a product better suited to this article than MOMU.
So, loosen up, write with some personality and flavor and most importantly, understand
who you are talking to and then speak THEIR language.
This is a great way to rewrite articles as well. The first article might be something you
would find in an article pack, and you could make some edits and switch things around
a bit and then really add that seasoning and personality to make it your own.
Those that have purchased my article packs may have noticed they are not very
humerous or witty, that is the way they are designed so they can be rewritten, added to
and made to be yours.